"Absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder, it just makes you realize you can live your life with out the other person."

That is so true. I don't believe in love. There are going to be many people out there that you can spend the rest of you life with. There is more than one person that you can love enough to share your world with. Just like there is always someone out there that is in a worse condition then you, there will always be someone out there that is a better match for you. We live in a society where our roles are defined for us. The social norm is to graduate high school and go off to college, party and then come home get married have children with a career. Why is it that most people tend to find the one they are going to marry at the age of 25-33. Its because people settle. And women know if they don't get married by that age they won't be able to have kids. That's why there are so many divorces. Because people settle. They think they are following the social norm and everyone wants to be a part of the norm so they do things that way. There will always be exceptions to the rule but most people just follow this. So yes you can love someone, but you can't really be in love with just one person.